A day in the life a Father

Every year, my wife goes for a long break from me with the kids in the month of March-April after the exam is over. The raucous home suddenly becomes silent. The long skype hours just can’t surrogate the sweet cuddle of my wife after a tiresome day or the fragrance of the two kids at the bed which fills me with joy untold.

Slowly as the silence pervades deeper into the heart, I know it’s time to get submerged in deep conversation with the person hiding in me. Once more I fall in love with myself, my books and days of the yesteryear. I begin to enjoy the seclusion. It doesn’t anyway demean my love and concern for the family. Perhaps my loving wife and kids will appreciate and forgive me for yearning some time for myself without them around.

With the two sons in deep sleep, silence has befallen once again at our home at Digboi. Wherever life takes us to, the four walls of this old B’low, built sometime in 1938, will always remind us of the beautiful time we had here seeing our kids growing up.

I switched on the laptop to write something about Sachin Tendulkar and late Rajesh Khanna.  Sachin and Rajesh both can wait for another day as I decided to write something about my day with my kids. Someday, when our sons grow up and become parents themselves and complain about our grandchildren, I can shield them like my parents and show this piece to remind exactly what they were once.

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The morning started with a frenzied search for our elder son, Hrishi’s school sweater and the blazer only to realize that he left it somewhere in the school yesterday and didn’t remember where he kept them off. At office, my wife informed that Ricky (Younger one- one year and eight month old pocket dynamo) had broken the Tata Sky set up box and how dearly she missed her favourite serials. By lunch time, chhotu has also added the land phone in the list of broken items and wife enquired whether BSNL would replace the set free of cost. Normally, I always get a warm welcome from the young one right at the entrance. Curious to know what kept him busy to forget my welcome, found him playing with the switch board standing on a stool he placed atop the dressing and a possible accident was averted at the nick of time. In the evening, another phone call from wife informed that Ricky managed to damage some part of a hand pump use to inflate the cycles of my neighbour he visits frequently.

My wife hurriedly left for club after my return for the rehearsal of the coming “Husbands’ Dinner” leaving the two demons at my care (Don’t know why these ladies take such long rehearsal for a simple cultural show). In between, she also informed me to quickly buy a new blazer for Hrishi as his lost blazer couldn’t be traced at school.

Fresh after a hot water bath, I was thinking about the case study presentation I would be making to the visiting Japanese delegates to our plant. I entered my room with a cup of green tea only to find the younger one already knocking the TV monitor with his plastic cricket bat as if I have fixed in at the wall to have knocking practice for him.

I wasn’t angry at all except feeling like pulling out whatever little remaining over my skull.

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After the maid left, I played cricket with chhotu while the elder one made countless visits from his study to the kitchen followed by toilet breaks after I stared at him for his frequent kitchen visits. Hrishi is eight and half year old and a nice gentleman. He no more breaks the crockery or bangs the TV remote on the wall like his younger brother.

Hrishi is out and out an extrovert and never hesitates to speak out his mind. He gets irked at our habit of congratulating everyone after he or she performs in the so called cultural extravaganza by the in-house talents. So, once after such a program, he went straight to the singer and told “Auntie, Why do you always sing? You know, your song sucks”

Imagine the plight of us and the singer in the public and that too amongst the crowd of ladies! This is only one amongst many such embarrassing moments with Hrishi which often evoked spontaneous fun latter.

I had once a miraculous escape too from being thrashed by a lady. Hrishi was small and in those days used to tweak whoever and whatever he could reach. I was standing in a queue in the bank behind   a smart lady. Suddenly the lady turned back at me with a furious look only to realise that the offender was not me but my three year old son who was of the right height for the wrong place! I felt relieved to see her scowl turning to a smile instead of a “cheek handshake” for me. 

Today was a great day for Hrishi at school as he mastered the art of whistling. Very happy, he kept on practicing and my stern warning further made his zeal doubled and quadrupled. This evening, he accompanied me to the market. In the midst of continuous babbling, he once more enquired why it was bad mannerism to whistle in public and then after a second, he did exactly that ….phew…phew…...

A lady with her two teenage daughters was walking at our front. Her daughters felt the pinch of late November cold of Digboi except in their legs. Their mother immediately turned back to find out the mischief monger and couldn’t believe that a grey haired man attired in formal suit and tie could actually did that. With goose bumps, I smiled at her to explain that it was my son and not me.

But after Hrishi’s “phew”, the mother started gazing continuously at the bare legs of her young daughters.  I pulled Hrishi’s finger hard as a gesture to walk faster so that we were no more behind the lady with her two daughters.

                                                         ( Digboi, 20 Nov,23:45 hrs)

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